The Difference Between a Bad Day and a Bad Pattern
A single hard day doesn’t tell you much. But the same hard day, recurring, in roughly the same shape — that’s something different. Here’s how to tell which one you’re in.
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A single hard day doesn’t tell you much. But the same hard day, recurring, in roughly the same shape — that’s something different. Here’s how to tell which one you’re in.

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